Do you show Gratitude?

This week on the T.O.U.C.H. 52:11 show I discussed a topic that is very close to my heart Gratitude. It was important to discuss this because when you are in your weight loss journey you can sometimes forget to appreciate the 5 to 10 pounds that you have lost even though your main goal may be to loose 75 pounds. Thus, taking the time to be grateful for your current progress is crucial.

The Power of Gratitude 4 Ways to Develop an Attitude of Gratitude

•Gratitude is described as personality strength—the ability to be keenly aware of the good things that happen to you and never take them for granted. Grateful individuals express their thanks and appreciation to others in a heartfelt way, not just to be polite. If you possess a high level of gratitude, you often feel an emotional sense of wonder, thankfulness and appreciation for life itself.

•Researchers are finding that individuals who exhibit and express the most gratitude are happier, healthier, and more energetic. Grateful people report fewer symptoms such as headaches, stomachaches, nausea, even acne, and spend more time exercising! And the more a person is inclined towards gratitude, the less lonely, stressed, anxious and depressed he or she will be.

•But, how do you increase your feelings of gratitude when nothing seems to be going right, or life presents great challenges and adversity? Is it really possible to express gratitude when you are not feeling you have anything to be grateful for?

•Although we may acknowledge gratitude’s benefits, it can still feel difficult to feel grateful when we are going through a difficult time. That’s why it makes so much sense to practice gratitude, in good times and bad. It may be human nature to notice all that is wrong or that we lack, but if we give ourselves the chance on a regular basis to notice all of lives gifts and blessings, we can increase our sense of well-being, and create hope and optimism for the future—no matter what is going on.

Here are some ways to start practicing gratitude to improve your well-being:

1. Keep a gratitude journal. At the end of each day, write down 3-5 things from the day you feel grateful for. Simplicity is key. Your baby’s smile, a perfect sunset, the train arriving on time, or your best friend’s laughter. Relish the feeling you get when remembering and writing it down.

2. Express your gratitude. Take the time to share your feelings. Not the simple, polite thank you, but the heartfelt emotions. Tell your friend how her support and sense of humor helps you get through tough times, and how much it means to you. Don’t take your loved ones for granted. Let them know how much you love them and why.

3. Look for what is right about a situation, not what’s wrong. Sure you’re frustrated by the bus being late, but thankfully you have an understanding boss. Service at the restaurant is poor, but you are lucky to afford an evening out surrounded by good friends.

4. Practice gratitude with your family and friends. Although you may not say grace before a meal, encourage each family member to report one thing that happened that day that they feel grateful for. When you hear a friend moaning and complaining, challenge him or her to find the hidden opportunity or silver lining to the situation.


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Life is like a puzzle

As I continue through my process understanding the puzzle that is my life can sometimes be frustrating. I think all of us have an opportunity to look at our life up close and understand that it is like puzzle pieces that we must take time and put together for completion. The key is to begin early and take your time to become clear about your purpose in life.

Once you do that you must believe in it with all of your heart, and don't let anyone shake you. Even when they aren't there for you, don't support you or don't truly believe in you you must continue to move forward.

Look at the puzzle at a complete part but understand that you are responsible for putting that puzzle together. Focus, remember your purpose and take the time to understand what your goals are.

T.O.U.C.H. 52:11 Inc. radio show "What Bad Habits Say About You"

On today's show I spoke on the importance of knowing what your bad habits are and how to conquer them.


What Your Bad Habits Say About You
Here are some personality traits that might make a difference, and tips to help you use them to meet your health and fitness goals:

Are you an Extrovert or an Introvert?
If you’re an extrovert, you may have a tendency to let social situations dictate your program or unduly influence your choices—for example, by canceling a workout if your fitness buddy isn’t available. Instead:

•Organize or get involved in friendly competitions that not only challenge your fitness level, but allow you to encourage and help others.
•Indulge your love of people with fitness activities that involve others—aerobics classes, team sports, busy gyms.
•Eat healthfully in social ways: swap tasty but healthy recipes or share meals/desserts when eating out.

Introverts are more oriented toward an inner world of ideas and face the opposite challenge: a stubborn tendency to go it alone, forgoing the support, motivation, and companionship others might offer. Some possible solutions:

•Make reading or learning about fitness a motivational tool that can help energize you
•Balance solitary exercise with some somewhat social exercise, even if it involves just one close friend. You may not want to exercise with a large group in a class setting, but you may be comfortable walking with a good friend.
•Look for quasi-social ways to get support (within your comfort zone), like lurking (or getting brave and posting!)
•Capitalize on your penchant for defining success by measuring your previous accomplishments against current performances.

Are you a careful planner or an impulsive improviser?

Some tips for planners:
•Make a conscious effort to branch out periodically, try new things, and allow for variety, whether picking a fitness activity or shopping for vegetables
•Satisfy your need to bring things to completion by keeping a checklist of the goals you set and accomplish
•Occasionally allow yourself to be "carried along" in both fitness endeavors and fun things, which can be rewards for meeting your goals (This means you must cut back on overbooking your schedule!).


Strategies for improvisers:•Pick workout avenues which allow you to literally change course on quick notice, whether on a jogging path or at a gym filled with diverse classes and equipment.
•Pair up with another improviser who's flexible and open to new activities, but will help hold you accountable in maintaining consistency
•Commit to a regular, specific quantity of weekly exercise while including "wiggle room" in case other activities come up. You might decide, for example, that you’ll work out at least 30 minutes five times a week, thus giving yourself a "pass" to skip exercising one or two days next week.

Are you intuitive or analytical?
Intuitive personalities generally resist record-keeping, assuming they just "know" whether they’ve been good or bad. To be more accurate and ensure success, try to:
•Adopt simple record-keeping systems for fitness and nutrition that have components which make sense to you—portion sizes (simply small, medium, and large), miles walked, etc.
•Rate your success in meeting daily and weekly goals on a scale of 1-10— intuitive tend to see "the big picture"

Although the analytical personality can turn record-keeping into a major obsession, being detail-oriented has its rewards: problem-solving skills that can be used to identify and overcome fitness obstacles.
•Do you set goals that are so unrealistic you can never meet them? Use your talents to break goals and activities into smaller, realistic pieces that can be more easily accomplished.
•Avoid getting bogged down in too much measurement detail. Instead, pick one or two (such as weight or inches lost) to assess once or twice a week.
•Find a way to learn more about health and fitness trends on a regular basis, whether using the library, Internet, or reputable magazine. Like the introvert, you enjoy exposure to new ideas and data. Make a point to learn about any personal issue you grapple with, such as emotional overeating or how to successfully quit smoking

Knowing the type of person you are will assit you with loosing weight in your weight lost program.

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T.O.U.C.H. 52:11 radio show Manage your time

Today on Blog Talk radio the T.O.U.C.H. 52:11 Inc. show the topic for today was

Manage Yourself in No Time

Do a Realistic Time Audit
Time management experts stress that before you can make needed changes in the way you manage time, you need to look at how you spend your time now. What activities or tasks are taking up the biggest chunks of your life? What items do you hate or put off most? Are you allowing others to dictate uses for your time that aren’t productive or don't fit your agenda? By doing a brutally honest assessment, you can begin to change the way you manage yourself in relation to time. (And my motto in life is that you can get all things back your money, homes, cars, jobs even a mate but you can never get back your time. Make sure you are using it to the best of your abilities).

Personalize your to-do list
Some people thrive using a daily to-do list, which they construct either at the end of the previous day or first thing the next morning. Some people combine a to-do list with a calendar or schedule. Others prefer a "running" to-do list that is continually being updated. Or, you may prefer a combination of both, whatever method works best for you. Don't be afraid to try a new system — you just might find one that works even better than your present one! (Remember that you need to complete you today list before going to bed so you don’t have to continue items from the day before).

Don't waste waiting time
Waiting is inevitable, but you can find ways to put even a few minutes of waiting to good use. Whether holding on the phone or waiting for play practice to end, you can make lists, sort mail, go over your schedule, and complete other small but necessary tasks. At home, sort the laundry or the mail while catching up on the news, talk on the phone while preparing dinner, etc. (this includes exercising give it your all because you accountable to yourself).

Stock up as much as possible
This includes the right types of food, shopping for the correct shoes, work out outfit etc. Weight lost program requires planning and having all the items needed to ensure success.

Have a system
your program must have a system in place and planned, there is no way things can be haphazard and expect to loose weight.

Multi-task when feasible
The key to your program must be multitasking. You have to learn how to deal with your emotional feelings, frustration, and sadness as you loose weight. This takes much practice and skill.
Don’t be a perfectionist. Some things are worth perfecting, but often good enough is just that— good enough. What’s more, perfectionism—paying unnecessary attention to detail—can be a form of procrastination. I find myself still a perfectionist but I have to monitor it as I go.

Learn to say ‘No'
Most of us have trouble saying this little word. But if you focus on the goals that are important to you— like incorporating a fitness routine into your life— saying no to the unimportant gets easier. It may even just be a matter of timing— as in saying, ‘Not now.’ NO is the most powerful word you can say.

Manging your time is the most important key to your weight lost program.

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Pretty Girls Rock conference

T.O.U.C.H. 52:11 Inc was asked to speak at the Pretty Girls Rock conference in Columbus Georgia Feb 19, 2011.

I had the opportunity to speak about Healthy relationships, how to groom yourself as a teen, and how to have good self esteem.
The young ladies loved having the chance to speak their mind, asking how to boost their self esteem when they sometimes feel down as well as, how to not have sex just because they were asked. Our conversations were honest and truthful and everyone felt like they were heard and their comments were considered.
I love my purpose and thank God everyday for the opportunity to encourage and explain how no matter where your life is you can always redirect it to the path it needs to go.

Change it up!!

I decided to change my look. I wanted a different hair color...... why?
just because :)

I decided to perm my hair out and just wear it straight. I love it, my hair has grown so much and it makes me feel good.

If you are ever in a situation in which you want to change things up do so. Remember that change and happiness is a choice. One must allow themselves an opportunity to recreate themselves when needed.

Do it in joy!!!

Malcolm student of the month!!!!

This post is just for my son he was just named Student of the Month!!!!!

I am so proud of him. I have been so stressed this year his 4th grade year. It has been a bit of a struggle for him and I so want him to achieve. I am stressed and frustrated alot because I know he misses being with friends and having alot of play timesome because he helps me with workshops and conferences that I do for others, since it's only him and I, but he never complains. He is my photographer, encourager and inspiration. I look at him and think about the doctors who told me I would never have children.

So Malcolm mommie LOVES you and I am so proud of you keep up the excellant work. Thank you for helping me lead by example!!!!